Throughout my life, there was never a moment when I felt I had a good relationship with her. It was always about walking on eggshells or being the victim. Now that I am older, I understand that what she is, is called a "Narcissist." Here are some examples I can give. On the day of my birthday, I was sick with the fever. But I had to dress up nicely and go to the party because she spent a lot of money on it, and I had to attend. On the day of my graduation, she made a scene because her partner, not my father, also needed a ticket to attend my ceremony.

When I received my first paycheck, she asked me if I could give her money to pay for her overdue bills. When I got into a relationship, she told my partner to stay away from me because I'm trouble. She would talk to her friends about me, and then I would lose friendships without knowing why. On the day of my wedding, everyone had to wait because she arrived late, and we couldn't start without her. According to her, the hairstyle I paid for wasn't good enough, so she had to fix it, causing the delay. And many things she would say about me, like I'm into drugs, which for me is okay because I know it's not true.

I have spent many years cutting her out of my life. I blocked her in every way possible, and literally, I don't know her, and I'm not interested either.

With my story, I don't expect you to agree with my decision to cut off the one who gave birth to me, but I want you to realize that not everyone has a good mother. Stop saying, "but she's your mother." Not everyone had a good mother, and it's okay to forgive whatever they put you through.
If you are going through something like having a mother who doesn't treat you well, it's okay to cut her off. Even if others judge or talk about you, it's okay because at the end of the day, only you know what you've been through and the value of your mental peace.

If you are a mother, love your children, treat them with love, understanding, patience, so they can also have love for you.

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