Meet Irina Croes, a 43-year-old social worker, currently serving as the Chief of Staff at the Ministry of Justice and Social Affairs. But Irina is not your typical social worker. She is a woman of immense talent and passion, known for her unwavering dedication to helping others, her love for Halloween, and her deep connection to Aruba's cultural heritage, particularly its vibrant carnival traditions. In this exclusive interview, Irina shares her thoughts on her role as a social worker, her personality that blends hard work and fun, her role as the organizer of Aruba's largest Halloween party, and her profound love for carnival.
From the very beginning of my studies, my main goal has been to help individuals in need and find appropriate solutions for their problems. Many people face issues that linger unresolved for extended periods, which often exacerbate their difficulties because they don't know where to turn for assistance. They need a guide to navigate the right path. I've always been ready to lend a hand, which is why I chose to study social work.
When you're facing challenging situations in life, it's crucial to take a step back and give yourself some time. If you're not feeling well, it's hard to help or guide others.
As a former Miss Aruba and model, you become acquainted with many people and build a vast network. My experience as Miss Aruba allowed me to visit different countries, where I had the opportunity to get to know various cultures. When you engage with different cultures, you realize that not everyone has to be the same. You provide space for everyone to be themselves, even if they think and act differently. There's no good or bad; it's merely different.
Being part of projects that make a difference and have a significant impact on our community is fulfilling. But, more importantly, it's rewarding to witness how individuals find something within my guidance and advice. Seeing how they shape themselves today and are satisfied with their achievements motivates me to continue growing in this field.
I strive to balance my work and personal life by keeping them separate. I value my job, but I also cherish my family and friends. I dedicate time to my loved ones. In my opinion, a proper balance makes you a happier person. A happy individual experiences less stress and is more productive. Personally, it's the perfect combination to pursue everything I love with complete dedication.
Honestly, you're here today, but tomorrow is uncertain. Everyone can decide for themselves at what age they set limits. For me, it's important to relax with my family and friends.
My family and friends inspired me to organize Halloween events. We arranged a surprise party for my brother, which was our first event. The feedback was so positive that we decided to continue the tradition. That's how Halloween/Hallowow became an annual event, starting in 2011.
The fantastic costumes were made with dedication. The time spent with creative people. The preparation and decoration. People who attend our event are always excited, and their feedback is consistently positive.
For example, this year, we started early. But in the last three years during COVID, we couldn't start as early. Everything depends on various factors. The theme is decided in collaboration with my "partners in crime" and sponsors. I have a team of creative individuals who excel in such events!
Thirteen years ago, we started with a crowd of just 100 people. Today, we have an audience of 600. I always try to align my outfit with the event's theme. For instance, this year's theme was "Calavera," and my outfit reflected that. The theme is decided collectively with the team.
There have been many memorable moments. But the most extraordinary and unforgettable one was in 2021. We managed to organize an event for 400 people during COVID. We made it happen by thinking outside the box. We tested all 400 attendees for COVID, including the event staff. This allowed us to ensure that everyone was negative, and the event could proceed without any worries. On that day, I felt immensely happy as everyone could finally enjoy themselves freely after spending a long time indoors.
I'm very proud of my identity and culture. Celebrating Halloween doesn't affect me in any way. It doesn't change my values and norms. To me, it's just another party where we can unleash our creativity. Everyone should decide for themselves whether they want to celebrate it or not. I don't think it affects our cultural identity as long as you respect your own culture. There should always be room to enjoy other cultures without forgetting your own.
Do you think halloween is gradually becoming integrated into aruban culture, and is that a good or bad thing?
It's definitely already integrated into our culture. I don't perceive it as something negative. On the contrary, schoolchildren are always excited, creating artworks for Halloween. Families and friends come together for trick-or-treating. It's a celebration that brings people together. I choose to focus on the positive side of the celebration. I've noticed that many people in Aruba also prefer to see the positive aspects.
How do you respond to another point of view held by some people who perceive halloween celebrations as something “diabolical”? As a social worker, do you feel responsible for addressing their concerns?
As a social worker, I always feel a responsibility to address everyone's concerns. I always strive to listen, assist, and provide advice without judgment.
Young people are going through a lot of stress for various reasons, facing numerous challenges. Without help or guidance, their future could be in jeopardy. Communication is the key. Always keep an open mind when talking to your children. Have a calm, attentive, and non-judgmental conversation. This way, your child can feel heard and be themselves. Even if you don't always agree with your children, show them that, in any circumstance, they can count on you. You are the first person they can call!
Carnival is my culture! I was born and raised in it. For Carnival 70, I will participate again after not participating last year, and I'm looking forward to it. Carnival is a moment for us to celebrate our culture. It's the time when our local artists express their creativity through music, dance, costumes, and elaborate floats. It's a time for us to let loose and enjoy ourselves, always in a healthy way. We need to maintain that balance for ourselves. For Carnival 70, I will be part of a group as an organizer and also as a participant."
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